Thrust: This is very simple. However, instead of just moving the dildo in and out, try different speeds and depths to add variety.
Hands-free: When you want to free your hands to explore other areas, stick the dildo to a flat surface for easy insertion. You can go at your own pace and control the depth of the toy.
G-Spot Stimulation: Some curved dildos are designed to target the hot spots inside you. Think of it as a heat-seeking pleasure missile. Once it's locked in that pleasure zone, stroke it with your toy or make small circular motions while experimenting with pressure and speed. Just do what feels best.
Tips for use: You don't always need full penetration to get full pleasure. Try using only the tip of the torso dildo to tease yourself. Try a slow and then a fast rhythm, or shallow and then full strokes.
Rotation: Because dildos are so lifelike, you can change up your masturbation routine by rotating the dildo as you move it in and out. Or try a dildo with a built-in swivel feature.
Anal: Dildos are also great for backdoor play, and most anal dildos will have a flared base so the toy doesn't slip too far. As with traditional vaginal play, you can push, twist, go hands-free or hand over the fun to your partner and let them take control. Plus, anal sex isn’t just for women. Men can enjoy backdoor fun too. Just make sure you use enough lube. The anus has no natural lubrication, so for your pleasure, comfort, and safety, this is an absolute must-have.
Solo dildo position
If you're using a dildo on your own, there are three popular positions that are perfect for solo play, but feel free to use your imagination and experiment.
Missionary: This is probably the easiest position for masturbating with a dildo. Just lie on your back and spread your legs. If you use an anal dildo, try placing a pillow underneath to provide a better, more comfortable angle for insertion.
Face Down: Lie on your stomach or on all fours as if you were going to do doggy style. You can penetrate and use your dildo by reaching up through your legs or back. It really depends on your comfort, flexibility, and reach.
Ride or straddle: The best thing about dildos is that many come with suction cups on the base. This way you can stick the clip to any clean, smooth surface. What does this mean to you? Free your hands and have fun! Try sticking it to a toilet seat, the floor, or a sturdy bench and then ride it cowgirl. Or stick it to the wall or shower wall and lean it against it. At the same time, your hands are free to caress your breasts or play with your clitoris for added stimulation and pleasure.
Using a dildo with a partner
While it's important to have a little "me time," dildos also make great sex toys for partner play. They're perfect for heating up the mood in the bedroom, strengthening intimacy between couples, and opening up lines of communication by allowing partners to express what feels good to them. Here are some tips on how to incorporate dildos into foreplay and sex.
Use dildos during foreplay: Foreplay is the perfect time to introduce sex toys, and dildos are no exception. To heighten anticipation, try placing a smaller dildo over her breasts, moving it down her body, teasing her inner thighs, then inserting it during a deep kiss. Experiment with different thrusting techniques, speeds, and depths so that when it comes time to actually make love, she's truly ready and you know what turns her on. The same is true for men.
Strap-on sex and pegging: Most people think of strap-on sex as being between two women, and that’s most often the case. However, many heterosexual couples are discovering "the hook." This allows the woman to control herself while penetrating her man. Stimulating the male prostate can bring about mind-blowing male orgasms, so if he's adventurous and open-minded, it's time to try out a role-reversal fantasy.
Double Penetration: Some dildos contain two attachments to simulate the feeling of double penetration. This is a perfect option for those looking for a "three-way" feel without actually requiring a third person to be involved. However, the most common type of double penetration dildo is the double penis. People of all genders and sexual orientations turn to this trusty toy that allows them to have fun at the same time. Whether you're using a dildo vagina-to-vagina, vagina-to-anus, or anus-to-anus, try the scissor position or butt-butt for the deepest sensation.
