Unchanging sexual activities can become monotonous and boring, leading to a lack of passion and excitement between partners. Learning how to innovate and add new pleasures to a dull sexual life is an important lesson. In daily life, there are many sexual toys that can enhance the sexual experience and make it more enjoyable.
Let's explore some knowledge about sexual toys.
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Vibrator:
Vibrators have a wide range of uses and can be used for solo play or with multiple partners. They come in different shapes, sizes, and intensities, allowing individuals to explore different sensations.
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Dildo:
Dildos are designed for insertion and can be used by individuals or couples. They come in different materials, sizes, and shapes to cater to different preferences.
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Couples' vibrator:
These are designed to enhance pleasure for both partners simultaneously. For example, wearable vibrators like the We-Vibe can be worn during intercourse to increase stimulation.
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Anal plugs:
Anal plugs are used for anal play and can provide pleasurable sensations. They come in different sizes, so it's important to start with smaller sizes if you're a beginner.
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Bondage gear:
For those interested in exploring BDSM or adding a bit of kink to their sexual life, bondage gear such as handcuffs, blindfolds, and restraints can be exciting.
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Cock rings:
Cock rings are designed to enhance erection and prolong sexual experiences. They can provide additional sensations for both partners.
In addition to sexual toys, there are other items in life that can add excitement to sex:
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Unscented soap and sweat-scented soap:
Before and after enjoying intimate moments, taking a comfortable bath is inevitable. However, if you have another date right after, the scent of soap all over your body might easily trigger wild imagination.
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Zero-gravity sex facilities:
For those who want to try different sexual experiences, you might consider a "zero-gravity device." This set of bed-side facilities imported from Japan is said to ignite unlimited imagination just by looking at it. You can suspend your or your partner's limbs and experience various positions. Some high-difficulty movements that are hard to achieve on a regular bed can be made easier with the help of a zero-gravity device. But whether it may strain your partner's limbs, only those who have tried it would know.
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Wrap yourself in a towel:
Normally, wrapping yourself in a towel as a woman tends to arouse a man's sexual impulse more easily. Before engaging in sexual activity, a short shower can maintain hygiene and gradually arouse the man's desire. When he sees you come out of the bath, wrapped in a sexy towel, shaking your wet hair, he's probably already impatient and can't wait.
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Play a romantic game with a blindfold:
During foreplay, you can have your partner lie on the bed and blindfold them, then perform various actions on their body, such as kissing. Since they can't see you and don't know which part you will kiss next, the stimulation will be more intense. Alternatively, you can write on their sensitive areas and let them guess, which adds romance to the game and helps deepen the emotional connection.
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Massage each other on a blanket:
Transform your bedroom into a temporary massage room. Couples can massage each other, apply essential oils, and arouse and enhance sexual desire. Generally, women are most sensitive in areas such as the ears, neck, inner thighs, armpits, breasts, and nipples. The husband can use the back of his fingers to gently press, with slow and gentle movements, which can arouse sexual excitement.
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Install a mirror for increased arousal:
Want to see what you and your partner look like during sex? Does seeing yourself make it more exciting? Consider installing a mirror in the bedroom, ideally facing the bed. During sex, you can observe and rediscover each other's bodies, increasing arousal. Research shows that women are more likely to reach orgasm when looking at themselves in the mirror. Seeing the intertwined bodies in the mirror, your and your partner's passionate and wild expressions, what could be a more thrilling and daring stimulant?
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Eight-legged sex chair:
This chair, with its four legs and two pairs of legs from a couple, is a standard item in many love hotels in recent years. It resembles a gynecological operating table, adding a touch of excitement when the woman lies on it. Her slender legs can be placed on both sides freely, creating an enticing posture that intensifies the couple's sexual desire.
When choosing sexual toys, consider the following factors:
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Choose reputable manufacturers:
There are many brands of sexual toys, so choosing a reputable manufacturer is crucial.
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Body-safe materials:
When purchasing adult products, it's important to prioritize materials that are safe for the body. For example, medical-grade silicone, glass, or stainless steel. Avoid toys made from porous materials as they may harbor bacteria.
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Size and shape:
Consider your comfort and preferences when selecting toys. Beginners may want to start with smaller-sized toys or gradually increase girth or lengthto avoid discomfort.
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Ease of use:
Look for toys that are easy to use and clean. Some toys come with remote controls or adjustable settings for convenience.
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Waterproof or splashproof:
If you enjoy using toys in the bath or shower, look for waterproof or splashproof options.
Always prioritize consent and communication with your partner when introducing sexual toys or new activities into your relationship. Discuss boundaries, desires, and preferences to ensure a pleasurable and consensual experience for both of you.
It's also worth noting that sexual toys and activities are personal choices, and not everyone may be interested in or comfortable with using them. It's essential to respect your partner's boundaries and preferences and maintain open and honest communication about your desires and fantasies.
